NORTH STAR.

What's up, I'm Tian, I go by he/him or she/her pronouns. I'm 26, bigender, bisexual, neurodivergent and Chinese! When I'm not studying in law school or for my conversion to Judaism, I'm working on my novel, writing on RP or messing around on adoptable petsite games. I did originally plan on leaving the RPC forever, but after learning the lengths which someone went to specifically drive me out, I came back out of spite. I'm excited to get to know you!

Roleplay Guidelines.

♕ I am mutuals only, multiship and open to duplicate shenanigans.♕ I may not get around to following you on all my blogs. A follow from any one of them counts as a follow for all of them on my end.♕ Please use my headcanons and worldbuilding only with my permission and proper crediting.♕ I may mention some real-life topics such as bigotry, class inequality and rights such as education and healthcare. This might happen in my worldbuilding metas, or my characters might talk about it. Please know that I will never comment on a specific real-world person in politics, and real-world modern political figures do not exist in my RP timelines (ex: my Pokémon muses might talk about corruption in the Pokémon's version of America but Bush and Trump don't exist). If this still makes you uncomfortable, however, it is best not to follow.♕ I have autism, ADHD, anxiety, depression and bipolar. I am also recovering from BDD as well as a metric fuckton of trauma; please be patient with me regarding replies, because I have a lot going on in my life at any given moment. I especially would love you to communicate clearly because due to my autism I have a hard time understanding anything that isn't hit-me-in-the-face obvious.♕ Respect my limited time on the Internet. I am currently undergoing a situation of extreme abuse in which my Internet time is confined to mealtimes and just before bed, unless I can sneak around the limitations my mom imposes on me. I am trying to get out of this situation by seeking help from my law school, but even after I escape, my Internet time will still be limited. Do not pester me for activity. Do not rant at me, badmouth me or make assumptions about my intent before I have time and space to communicate my feelings. If you do things like this, I will block you and never look back, and I guarantee you, you will not be missed.♕ I don't plan on commenting on drama very often, and when I do, whether I comment on drama or reblog a callout post is at my SOLE discretion. If I choose to say nothing to protect my own mental health or because I have reasonable reservations about the situation I will not tolerate guilt-tripping or pressuring of any sort. If you try to get me to say something when I have already refused, that will merit an INSTANT block.

DNI

I will legitimately not interact with you and may even block you if I see that the vast majority of your OCs have "ideal" body types (hourglass & pear shapes for women--particularly 'thicc' bodies, and muscular inverted triangle shape for men). I will also refuse to interact or even block if you consistently change non-ideal canon characters’ features and body types to conform to societal ideals.Ignore this if you have only a few OCs--I’m talking about people who have like 7-10 female OCs and every single one is either an hourglass or a pear. Also ignore this if you play only hot canon characters who canonically had ideal body types because that usually can't be helped, but OCs are a different story because you got to choose every aspect of their appearance. This is because as someone who has struggled with BDD, I am OFFENDED by the notion that every single character has to have the ideal body type in order to be highly attractive. It may come off as strange to you, but if you have any questions or wish to be educated, I am more than willing to discuss. Sincerely, a skinny-fat inverted triangle who’s eternally salty that she’ll never see a single character with her body type that’s considered to be hot.I also do not interact with minors. Minors are welcome to follow my blogs, but I will not follow back. If you lie to me about your age, including lying by omission, I will block you on all your blogs.Further, I will hesitate to follow back/follow first and may even block people who I hear have a history of bad communication. This includes but is not limited to ghosting without good cause, venting to others about people instead of telling them your problems directly, and letting friendship issues pile up until a blowout occurs without talking through any of them. As an autistic and otherwise heavily neurodivergent person who has lost many good friendships to poor or no communication, facing such behavior is traumatic for me because it makes me feel as though I can’t trust peoples’ true intentions when things appear to be all right between us. I am far less likely to associate with someone who has treated my friends with the same kind of behavior that people have done to me repeatedly.I will also block people who do this directly to me; bad faith in communication is one of the few things that I am likely to block for on the first offense. To be sure, there are circumstances in which it would be unsafe to communicate and where actions such as ghosting is acceptable, such as if the person is an abuser or a sexual predator--I myself will ghost under those circumstances. However, I have done nothing of the sort, so I am much less likely to trust the intentions of those who cannot communicate with me openly and freely.Finally, I will not RP with Harry Potter muses, I will not allow them into my events, and I may hesitate to follow back if I see you RPing them. I will not cut off existing mutuals for still continuing to engage with Harry Potter, nor will I block if I follow you and learn that you are still a Harry Potter fan. However, I am of the opinion that J.K. Rowling sees her continued cultural relevance as fuel and support for her transphobic and antisemitic views, and thus it is time to move on from Harry Potter as a fan interest. As such, I as a bigender trans man converting to Judaism have chosen not to engage with any aspect of the Wizarding World, whether in public or in private. If you enjoy J.K. Rowling's transphobic works in her mystery series, I will not only not follow back, that's a hardblock from me.

Status: Even Lower Activity Notice

Law school is just as hard as advertised!

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